As mums, we’ve all done it.
We scroll through social media and see another baby crawling at 6 months, another one eating solids like a champ, another one walking before their first birthday. And suddenly, we start to question ourselves.
"Should my baby be doing that too?"
"Are we falling behind?"
"Did I do something wrong?"
Let’s take a deep breath together, mama — and remind ourselves of something powerful: Your baby is not behind. They’re just on their own timeline.
Every Baby Grows at Their Own Pace
Development isn’t a race. Some babies talk early but take their time walking. Some sleep through the night at 3 months, while others need a bit more time to settle. And that’s okay.
Just like adults, babies have their own personalities, preferences, and pace. Comparing them to others is like comparing the moon to the sun — both shine, just at different times.
The Milestone Trap
Milestones are helpful guides, but they’re not the only measure of growth. They’re averages — not deadlines.
It’s easy to feel anxious when your friend’s baby is doing something your little one isn’t. But remember, what you don’t see on social media are the hard days, the worries, and the waiting behind the scenes.
Your Little Boss is learning, observing, growing — even when it’s not visible yet.
Celebrate What Is Happening
Instead of focusing on what hasn’t happened yet, take a moment to look at what is.
Maybe your baby smiles a little longer when you walk into the room. Maybe they’ve developed their own little giggle that melts your heart. Maybe they’re just soaking up the world in their own quiet way.
These moments matter too. A lot.
Trust Your Instincts
As a mum, you know your baby best.
If something truly feels off, never hesitate to speak to your pediatrician. But most of the time, it’s not a delay — it’s just a different rhythm.
Let’s give ourselves the grace to enjoy the journey, not rush it. And let’s give our babies the space to bloom exactly when they’re meant to.
Because mama…
Your baby is not behind. They’re right where they need to be.
And so are you.
Till next week, parents!